Hurtful conversations don’t discriminate based on age. I had just turned fifty-six when my husband of two decades changed into a completely different person, after he was made redundant at work. Tired of his constant anger and rage whenever we were together, I told him I was leaving. The hatred, abusive text messages and emails to me was astounding and unrelenting. I started using Toppako, which protected me from all of this, and I was even able to keep records of his offensive behaviour.